独立，有错不?

独立的女生：
1。努力工作，为事业而奋斗
2。关心别人对她的意见，但不会让他们干扰他的兴趣
3。会从错误中学习，绝不会允许自己犯同样的错误
4。有自己的主见
5。懂自己要什么，对另一半的要求很高
6。有自己的生活方式
...

如果可以选，谁想那么地独立？
过于独立让自己觉得很累，会想有个依靠。
好像全世界的事都关她屁事，什么事她都一个人搞定，好像她自己很厉害酱。

越是独立，也会有柔弱的一面。
请不要高估独立的女孩，她们内心很脆弱的
没有人了解她们的有着藏着自己精神的角落
也许她们在亲情，爱情，友情受过伤；导致她们开始学着不依赖别人。

有时候，独立是被逼出来的。

其实.. 每位女生都会有个内心被宠爱，被呵护的需要。

只要你比她们强；无论在事业/生活/人品/能力；

要不，你就比她们阳光；

你就赢了。

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Life as a Post-grad

Hi, Mid of 2016.

Time is running very quickly. I remembered how much stressed I had in the semester 2 of my post-grad life.
Been chasing after the time. Tonnes of presentations, assignments, postings, reports, assessments etc. 3 presentations is a day, rushed assignment in 2 days, prepared dissertation proposal within 2 weeks.
Really exhausted.
Yet sem 2 was all about self-learning, glad that I am able to went out for dates, dinner, movies with my favorite people.

I always cant wait to end this post-grad life. I cant wait to step into the society, to work, and to earn money again.
Yes, you might be jealous of my student's life.. but probably you dont know how much courage needed to quit your job, back to university & compete with those 'younger' than you, crack your head to memorize again (getting old now T.T ), no income (most importantly!).
Please dont tell me: aiyoo ask from your parents lah.
No, I just can't accept their money. It's time to take care of myself, with my own savings.
So, post-grad student is "MEMANG MISKIN".
Apa pun naik harga, how to survive? 

Thanks to myself- my mentality, my strength, my body
Thanks for enduring my stress + tiredness from part time work.
Thanks for being good and hold on throughout my hard times.

Whatever it is,
I know after this, I won't be going back to the life as a student. I won't. I don't think I will continue my PhD. *i think i will go crazy*
So I will REALLY 'enjoy' this journey -18 months of a life as a student. I will need to make sure that I enhance my knowledge, and contribute to the society one day.
I am not a girl that has a big dream. I am just an ordinary girl, seeking for a better life by being a citizen that contributes with my own profession.

I am happy with what I am having now. This post is probably will be useful to remind me: to be glad for everything, to endure some challenges in life, to flash back my student's life.
So that one day when I turn back & look at my past, it is something that can be proud of.

Post grad life, CHEERS!

NERD enough!

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